Breaking up is sad and painful, you’re left feeling shattered. But bouncing back is what happens next. It might take a week, a month, but eventually you’ll get over it, and then it can be exhilarating, fun, revengeful and rewarding.
As punk poet John Cooper Clarke once said: “Revenge is a sweet emotion.” Of course, you need the perfect song to soundtrack all this (and give you extra inspiration), so in this episode of The Perfect Song For... podcast, your regular hosts Fred de Vries and Tim Cohen are joined by arts writer and music aficionado Sarah Buitendach to sample a selection of songs which will move you off the couch, dump the ice cream bucket, leave the bottle, and get out there again.
But before that happens, there is going to be some getting even, a bit of self-affirmation, and a few scores that have to be settled.
This week’s selection consists of:
Back in the Saddle – Aerosmith
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lX8GG3dnsp8
We are never Ever Getting Back Together – Taylor Swift
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WA4iX5D9Z64
Dead Flowers – The Rolling Stones
You Oughta Know – Alanis Morissette
Another Girl – The Beatles
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMBYNWr5R_U
New Rose – The Damned
Good 4 You – Olivia Rodrigo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNi_6U5Pm_o
I Will Survive – Gloria Gaynor
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6dYWe1c3OyU
Fuck You – CeeLo Green. DM
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Tim Cohen is the business editor of Daily Maverick. Fred de Vries is an author, writer, journalist and South Africa correspondent for Elsevier Magazine and De Groene Amsterdammer. He writes regular music columns for Platenblad in the Netherlands and Vrye Weekblad in South Africa.